ok so here's the deal

so wednesday of last week katie was off of work (as usual) and was attempting to set the house up after our move. the thing is though, she has add (undiagnosed but still...) and can't focus on any one thing for very long. so when she does things like this and i come home it looks like she hasn't done ANYTHING because she's partially done SOME things (but never completes ANYTHING!) so she started working on kensie's closet (we had to add another bar to fit all of our clothes into these tiny closets) but didn't finish that, then she started working on kensie's ROOM but didn't finish that and she also said that she was going to do the dishes but she didn't touch them at all.

so she's texting me all day long (seriously, idk how she ever accomplishes anything because she's constantly texting me. no joke, when i talked to t-mobile and put her line by itself the rep told me that in that particular month she had SENT OUT over 10,000 texts!!!) and then finally she goes "i just want you to know that i'm trying so when you get home you won't get mad or anything. i'm just really tired though and want to rest some. but i'm trying but i won't have anything finished." that pretty much meant that she wasted all her time texting me and watching tv and didn't get anything done.

i texted her back and said ok but that this part of the move was pretty much going to be all her because of my hernia. i told her that my surgeon said for me to not lift, push or pull ANYTHING for the next 4 weeks and then to not lift, push or pull anything over 10 pounds for the 2 weeks after that. she got pissed off at me and said for me to not start this right now because she's already stressed out enough as it is. i was all like "wtf??? what are you even talking about? start what? i'm just telling you what he said." and it pretty much just escalated from there.

she kept saying for me to not talk to her like that (like WHAT? i just told her what my surgeon said!) and that if i kept on that she was going to leave. so i told her to be very certain that that's what she wants before she leaves because if she leaves there's no coming back. and... she left. and immediately regretted it and thought that i should let her come back home that very night. WTF!

well we've been texting and talking since then and we're trying to work on things together and trying to work on getting back together but it's going to take some time...

anywho, now you know.